Labor Day Weekend Chastain Park Amphitheatre will hold host to The Reunion Concert hosted by Idris Elba. Performing LIVE the Isley Brothers,Debarge & Carl Thomas. Show starts at 7PM. Tickets are avaialble now at livenation.com
Tuesday, August 30, 2011
The Reunion Concert
Labor Day Weekend Chastain Park Amphitheatre will hold host to The Reunion Concert hosted by Idris Elba. Performing LIVE the Isley Brothers,Debarge & Carl Thomas. Show starts at 7PM. Tickets are avaialble now at livenation.com
Friday, August 19, 2011
why Wont He COMMIT?
The age old question women ask themselves. WHY WON’T HE COMMMIT? Contrary the belief of most women.. Men aren’t afraid of commitment.. There afraid of what there committing to. It is common that once women get to a certain age.. They are ready to settle down & start their “family lives”. It seems as if men seem to not be as ready. People say that women naturally mature faster than men. I wouldn’t say that’s 100% accurate. But I will say that because women are naturally designed to be nurturing.. They look for that faster in their life than men do.
Women often ask women.. “girl what am I doing wrong” “what’s working for you”.. and that’s helps.. but can also cause a problem. Women have a tendency to look at other relationships & compare theirs to others... Men however, don’t like that. There are 3 key things you need to look at as a woman to find out why a guy won’t commit to you.
1.) Yourself
2.) The guy your dealing with
3.) The situation
So well start with yourself.. The lady, the woman in the situation. Sometimes you have to do a true self assessment. Ask yourself; are you ready for a commitment? Are you secure enough in yourself as a person to be a well rounded mate? Are you the mate for this person? Honestly, why do you want to be with this person? A lot of women make the mistake of trapping themselves with a guy because of children, how long they’ve been with them, their comfortable; they don’t want to start over. Soooo many reasons.. All these things point to insecurity, Which breed disaster for any relationship. If you’re constantly asking the person you’re with questions about commitment… HE WILL NOT SETTLE DOWN WITH YOU. Men aren’t designed that way.. We will naturally rebel. You should ask your mate what things they like about & also what areas you can improve on. A man wont deal with a woman too long that wont accept leadership. A strong woman knows that in order to be a leader in her relationship she has to walk beside her man.. Not behind him nagging, not in front of him scolding.. but beside him. You look at the person your dealing with & you believe that he’ the right one for you.. have you readied yourself to be the right 1 for him. How do you resolve conflict with your mate? Do you run to friends.. do you address it right away, do you only speak on the problem & not the solution. These are all red flags for Men. You play just as much of a role in your man wanting to be with you as he does with his desire.
The guy. The other half of the equation. What kind of guy are you dealing with. There are 2 types of MALES(Boys & Men) & 2 types of MEN.. if you r dealing with a boy.. then you have your answer. But there are 2 types of men.. Men that need a woman to take care of him & Men who need a woman who wants to take care of him. Based on which type of guy youre dealing with will determine why which particular guy wont commit. The guy who needs a woman to take care of him is simply put. He needs a Wother(woman/mother). He’s fine with his partner controlling certain aspects of his life. He needs a woman to build him up. Not saying he’s not a good catch.. he’s just used to being taken care of. Hes the guy whos woman handles everything on the business side of the relationship. Now depending on what type of wman you are.. this guy works for you. He will go to work, bring you his money & take care of home. Honestly this guy isn’t that desirable... but he often is in relationships more than the other male type. Type 2... The guy who needs a woman who wants to take care of him. Like it or not ladies men are all babies. Were spoiled (kanye shrug). . We want a woman who nurtures us. But this male type doesn’t need you in the same facet. He wants t know that you are his partner & that your focus is aligned with his. He’s confident, secure in whom he is & knows what he wants. He’s the guy who will take charge in his strong areas & allow you to lead in your strong areas. He’s about the partnership. This male type is no nonsense & won’t commit to you if you aren’t secure in yourself. His male needs you to be his cheerleader, his groupie, his fan, his support system. Etc... He needs you for emotional support... Not to be his mother. This guy is normally the most desirable & because of that... he doesn’t settle quickly because he has to know his partner. Yes all men have issues like women do. You have to know what type of guy your dealing with, how you align with him a find out the disconnect. If you’re a passive woman dealing with a passive male... not gonna work... he needs you to take care of him & you want him to take charge... get my drift...
Lastly... The SITUATION... that means when you step back & look at it. Does the relationship make sense to BOTH parties? Ladies... just because you think it does. Doesn’t mean you’re on the same page. Ladies... if a man shows you who he is believe him... & leave him... But if you decide to stay, you accept that behavior. If your guy has some things but their workable... don’t jump ship so quickly. People always talk about communication, trust & all that... Those things have to be a given before you get this point. But if being with this person doesn’t make since, financially, socially, and emotionally& you’re just working to hard... then that’s not it... You work hard in relationships... not for them... If you can the around this person naturally... then its not gonna work long term. If you guys don’t build each other... then it’s not the move. At the end of the day... if you’re asking a man to commit to a headache. You’re headed for heartache.
In conclusion. Relationships are a business... It’s not about why he won’t commit... its more about why she won’t commit... look into you 1 st for answers. Don’t go to anyone who has less experience than you. You want a working relationship... surround yourself with working relationships. See how they operate. Asses your but don’t try to immolate. Find out if this is the guy for you... That’s important. Ladies... learn to lay your cards out. Let a guy know where you are... scare him as qucly as possible to find out how he will react. To see whether you have a Boy or a Man. After you’ve discovered that... Find out which type of Man he is. Lastly... don’t force anything... if he doesn’t want to be there... u can’t make him. & your just gonna be a miserable mess anyway... Be the strong woman that GOD created you to be & handle you. The reason you may not have found the one for you, is because you’re still building yourself to be the one for them.
Women often ask women.. “girl what am I doing wrong” “what’s working for you”.. and that’s helps.. but can also cause a problem. Women have a tendency to look at other relationships & compare theirs to others... Men however, don’t like that. There are 3 key things you need to look at as a woman to find out why a guy won’t commit to you.
1.) Yourself
2.) The guy your dealing with
3.) The situation
So well start with yourself.. The lady, the woman in the situation. Sometimes you have to do a true self assessment. Ask yourself; are you ready for a commitment? Are you secure enough in yourself as a person to be a well rounded mate? Are you the mate for this person? Honestly, why do you want to be with this person? A lot of women make the mistake of trapping themselves with a guy because of children, how long they’ve been with them, their comfortable; they don’t want to start over. Soooo many reasons.. All these things point to insecurity, Which breed disaster for any relationship. If you’re constantly asking the person you’re with questions about commitment… HE WILL NOT SETTLE DOWN WITH YOU. Men aren’t designed that way.. We will naturally rebel. You should ask your mate what things they like about & also what areas you can improve on. A man wont deal with a woman too long that wont accept leadership. A strong woman knows that in order to be a leader in her relationship she has to walk beside her man.. Not behind him nagging, not in front of him scolding.. but beside him. You look at the person your dealing with & you believe that he’ the right one for you.. have you readied yourself to be the right 1 for him. How do you resolve conflict with your mate? Do you run to friends.. do you address it right away, do you only speak on the problem & not the solution. These are all red flags for Men. You play just as much of a role in your man wanting to be with you as he does with his desire.
The guy. The other half of the equation. What kind of guy are you dealing with. There are 2 types of MALES(Boys & Men) & 2 types of MEN.. if you r dealing with a boy.. then you have your answer. But there are 2 types of men.. Men that need a woman to take care of him & Men who need a woman who wants to take care of him. Based on which type of guy youre dealing with will determine why which particular guy wont commit. The guy who needs a woman to take care of him is simply put. He needs a Wother(woman/mother). He’s fine with his partner controlling certain aspects of his life. He needs a woman to build him up. Not saying he’s not a good catch.. he’s just used to being taken care of. Hes the guy whos woman handles everything on the business side of the relationship. Now depending on what type of wman you are.. this guy works for you. He will go to work, bring you his money & take care of home. Honestly this guy isn’t that desirable... but he often is in relationships more than the other male type. Type 2... The guy who needs a woman who wants to take care of him. Like it or not ladies men are all babies. Were spoiled (kanye shrug). . We want a woman who nurtures us. But this male type doesn’t need you in the same facet. He wants t know that you are his partner & that your focus is aligned with his. He’s confident, secure in whom he is & knows what he wants. He’s the guy who will take charge in his strong areas & allow you to lead in your strong areas. He’s about the partnership. This male type is no nonsense & won’t commit to you if you aren’t secure in yourself. His male needs you to be his cheerleader, his groupie, his fan, his support system. Etc... He needs you for emotional support... Not to be his mother. This guy is normally the most desirable & because of that... he doesn’t settle quickly because he has to know his partner. Yes all men have issues like women do. You have to know what type of guy your dealing with, how you align with him a find out the disconnect. If you’re a passive woman dealing with a passive male... not gonna work... he needs you to take care of him & you want him to take charge... get my drift...
Lastly... The SITUATION... that means when you step back & look at it. Does the relationship make sense to BOTH parties? Ladies... just because you think it does. Doesn’t mean you’re on the same page. Ladies... if a man shows you who he is believe him... & leave him... But if you decide to stay, you accept that behavior. If your guy has some things but their workable... don’t jump ship so quickly. People always talk about communication, trust & all that... Those things have to be a given before you get this point. But if being with this person doesn’t make since, financially, socially, and emotionally& you’re just working to hard... then that’s not it... You work hard in relationships... not for them... If you can the around this person naturally... then its not gonna work long term. If you guys don’t build each other... then it’s not the move. At the end of the day... if you’re asking a man to commit to a headache. You’re headed for heartache.
In conclusion. Relationships are a business... It’s not about why he won’t commit... its more about why she won’t commit... look into you 1 st for answers. Don’t go to anyone who has less experience than you. You want a working relationship... surround yourself with working relationships. See how they operate. Asses your but don’t try to immolate. Find out if this is the guy for you... That’s important. Ladies... learn to lay your cards out. Let a guy know where you are... scare him as qucly as possible to find out how he will react. To see whether you have a Boy or a Man. After you’ve discovered that... Find out which type of Man he is. Lastly... don’t force anything... if he doesn’t want to be there... u can’t make him. & your just gonna be a miserable mess anyway... Be the strong woman that GOD created you to be & handle you. The reason you may not have found the one for you, is because you’re still building yourself to be the one for them.
Thursday, August 18, 2011
Grand Hustle Present Hustle & Flow Networking Event
Grand Hustle & Konvict Music Presents... HUSTLE & FLOW NETWORKING EVENT!!
August 29th at Club Crucial -- 2517 Donald Lee Hollowell Pkwy
Bu Thiam -- VP-Def Jam Records| Co-CEO Konvict Muzik | CEO BuVision | A&R of Jay-z & Kanye's WATCH THE THRONE Album will be taking over HUSTLE & FLOW!!
Hosted by Atown Mike & Crum.com
Grand Hustle's own & TI's official DJ ---> DJ MLK will be in the building!!
Magic City's own ---> DJ ESCO will be in the building!!
Record Breaking Coalition DJ ---> DJ Funky will be in the building!!
Featured Artist VERSE SIMMONDS will be performing live!!!
**WINNER WILL RECEIVE iTUNES Single**
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Basic Bitches, Bad Bitches & Regular Women
There has been a social discrepancy amongst women... Especially our women.. So much so to where it has jaded the idea of how our women define themselves to us... And to themselves. I'm speaking in reference to Basic Bitches,Bad Bitches & Regular Women. I feel its valid to speak on this from a male vantage point.
So well start with THE BASIC BITCH. Also known as ratchets,dirty foots,skeezers etc.. Basic bitches have no care for their social position... Their primary problem is that they desire to be bad bitches or wurr previously a bad bitch. Basic bitches attempt to acquire bad bitch things on a scaled down level. Ita all abt the "look" for them. Basic bitches are not always bad looking... Males don't be fooled.... You can get caught up by a basic bitch in bad bitch clothing.. What separates a bad bitch from a basic bitch is quality. A basic bitch will screw a man knowing that he has no desire what so ever to be with her & be content with that. And based on the individuals social status she will go to great length's to do so. Basic bitches are basic because they apply their skills,talent & looks to mediocrity.. BASIC shit.
Next is the BAD BITCH.. The most controversial.. Women often associate themselves with bad bitches. This connotation is normally associated with the image that the media has portrayed to them. Bad bitches are a few...But not rare... Bad bitches are normally more than average in physical stature. They normally acquire the latest & stay up with whats goin on. The problem with bad bitch standard is its set by the WRONG media image for a woman. Bad bitches normally are all about social status.. They want to be around whats hot,who's hot & are against whats not. Bad bitches normally run in packs.. They are hunters. Bad bitches are normally very well known.. Just not normally for the right things. Because of their desire for the finer things in life but not the means to do so... They often engage in questionable acts in order to obtain these said "things". There is a silver lining to bad bitches.. A bad bitch CAN ALWAYS become a regular woman with a redirect of focus. That's what separates a bad bitch from being regular.. Her focus is on using what she has to get what she wants..She's willing to go the extra mile for a lifestyle.
Now... The regular woman... Everybody asks.. Who wants a regular woman? Well..Based on life.. Every man... Basic bitches are primarily single.. Bad bitches...Are either single & fuckin.. Or fuckin wit somebody who's fuckin everybody. Regular woman.. May have a friend...Maybe 2.. But there is a difference. Regular women use their tools,skills & resources for personal advancement rather than social status or acquiring things. Regular woman are the rarest because they are the most looked over. They are everywhere... They walk around in clubs,malls,the streets..Everywhere. They may have extraordinary careers but live there life in a normal facet. There focus isn't on acquiring the latest fashion even though they may be fashion forward. They idea of social status isn't what artist you are or team you play for.. Its their own forward progression in their career & life. They want to align themselves with someone who shares like ideas & goals. In a group of 5 women there will be 3 Basic Bitches,1 Bad Bitch & 1 Regular Woman. The basic bitches will be always aggressive..Because they basic... They ain't used to shit... The bad bitch will get selected becuz she is clearly head over heels more "revealing" than the regular woman. The regular woman would care less because she's really not that interested if it doesn't peek her interest. The regular woman prefers class over objectification. She may be just as big of a fan as a basic or bad bitch but wont put herself in a position to be labeled. A regular woman admires the aggression of a basic bitch & the adoration a bad bitch receives but respects her reserved position on things. A bad bitch looks at the regular woman & says "im way badder than her why i cant get no man", the basic bitch says "she aint all dat i could get her man if i wanted him".. All the while they admire the subtle reservation of the regular woman that makes her beautiful.
In conclusion. A regular woman is the true standard. The woman who works hard for things she desires.. She may be just as appealing physically as the bad bitch but refuses to objectify herself. Fhe media has hidden this woman from plain sight & has caused society to overlook her. So now our women add this..Cut that.. Sew in this & inject that to create this Bad Bitch who with all her accessories still has little value. A bad bitch is just a basic bitch in hiding... U can stand a group of women together & they can all be equally attractive..But what would separate them from a Bad Bitch, a Basic Bitch & Regular Woman... ATTITUDE...
So well start with THE BASIC BITCH. Also known as ratchets,dirty foots,skeezers etc.. Basic bitches have no care for their social position... Their primary problem is that they desire to be bad bitches or wurr previously a bad bitch. Basic bitches attempt to acquire bad bitch things on a scaled down level. Ita all abt the "look" for them. Basic bitches are not always bad looking... Males don't be fooled.... You can get caught up by a basic bitch in bad bitch clothing.. What separates a bad bitch from a basic bitch is quality. A basic bitch will screw a man knowing that he has no desire what so ever to be with her & be content with that. And based on the individuals social status she will go to great length's to do so. Basic bitches are basic because they apply their skills,talent & looks to mediocrity.. BASIC shit.
Next is the BAD BITCH.. The most controversial.. Women often associate themselves with bad bitches. This connotation is normally associated with the image that the media has portrayed to them. Bad bitches are a few...But not rare... Bad bitches are normally more than average in physical stature. They normally acquire the latest & stay up with whats goin on. The problem with bad bitch standard is its set by the WRONG media image for a woman. Bad bitches normally are all about social status.. They want to be around whats hot,who's hot & are against whats not. Bad bitches normally run in packs.. They are hunters. Bad bitches are normally very well known.. Just not normally for the right things. Because of their desire for the finer things in life but not the means to do so... They often engage in questionable acts in order to obtain these said "things". There is a silver lining to bad bitches.. A bad bitch CAN ALWAYS become a regular woman with a redirect of focus. That's what separates a bad bitch from being regular.. Her focus is on using what she has to get what she wants..She's willing to go the extra mile for a lifestyle.
Now... The regular woman... Everybody asks.. Who wants a regular woman? Well..Based on life.. Every man... Basic bitches are primarily single.. Bad bitches...Are either single & fuckin.. Or fuckin wit somebody who's fuckin everybody. Regular woman.. May have a friend...Maybe 2.. But there is a difference. Regular women use their tools,skills & resources for personal advancement rather than social status or acquiring things. Regular woman are the rarest because they are the most looked over. They are everywhere... They walk around in clubs,malls,the streets..Everywhere. They may have extraordinary careers but live there life in a normal facet. There focus isn't on acquiring the latest fashion even though they may be fashion forward. They idea of social status isn't what artist you are or team you play for.. Its their own forward progression in their career & life. They want to align themselves with someone who shares like ideas & goals. In a group of 5 women there will be 3 Basic Bitches,1 Bad Bitch & 1 Regular Woman. The basic bitches will be always aggressive..Because they basic... They ain't used to shit... The bad bitch will get selected becuz she is clearly head over heels more "revealing" than the regular woman. The regular woman would care less because she's really not that interested if it doesn't peek her interest. The regular woman prefers class over objectification. She may be just as big of a fan as a basic or bad bitch but wont put herself in a position to be labeled. A regular woman admires the aggression of a basic bitch & the adoration a bad bitch receives but respects her reserved position on things. A bad bitch looks at the regular woman & says "im way badder than her why i cant get no man", the basic bitch says "she aint all dat i could get her man if i wanted him".. All the while they admire the subtle reservation of the regular woman that makes her beautiful.
In conclusion. A regular woman is the true standard. The woman who works hard for things she desires.. She may be just as appealing physically as the bad bitch but refuses to objectify herself. Fhe media has hidden this woman from plain sight & has caused society to overlook her. So now our women add this..Cut that.. Sew in this & inject that to create this Bad Bitch who with all her accessories still has little value. A bad bitch is just a basic bitch in hiding... U can stand a group of women together & they can all be equally attractive..But what would separate them from a Bad Bitch, a Basic Bitch & Regular Woman... ATTITUDE...
Tuesday, August 2, 2011
Dj Scream signs with Maybach Music Grp. Announcement & Interview [Hood...
One of Atlanta's biggest DJ's inks deal with Maybach Music Group
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